7 Years of Dear Zindagi: 15 Things Shah Rukh Khan and Alia Bhatt Taught Us

Shahrukh Khan and Alia Bhatt’s “Dear Zindgai” was released on November 25, 2016, completing 7 years now in 2023.

I first saw Kaira and Dr. Jehgangir Khan in Dear Zindagi 7 years ago. My memories of Alia Bhatt as Kaira and Shah Rukh Khan as Jehangir, the therapist, are still very clear. In addition to being relatable, Gauri Shinde’s “Dear Zindagi” provides the order we seek amidst the chaos of daily life.

‘Dear Zindagi’ demonstrates that movies are much more than just amusement, whether it’s Alia Bhatt belting out Just Go To Hell Dil or Shah Rukh Khan imparting valuable life lessons. It might be your greatest instructor at times.

Here are the 15 life lessons “Dear Zindagi” has given us.

1. Acknowledge Your Flaws.
We are reminded in the film that nobody is flawless. Because each of us is flawed, we are all unique. The first step to happiness is to be kind to ourselves and accept our shortcomings.

2. Get assistance when needed.
“Dear Zindagi” questions the stigma associated with getting emotional support. It teaches us that when life becomes too much to handle, it’s acceptable to speak with a therapist or counselor. It is not shameful to ask for help.

3. You Don’t Own Your Errors.
While mistakes are inevitable in life, they do not define us. The movie exhorts us to forget our mistakes and go forward instead of getting bogged down in them.

4. The Ability to Forgive.
Pardoning people who have caused us harm can feel freeing. Keeping grudges just makes us feel heavier. We learn from “Dear Zindagi” that showing forgiveness to others is a self-care practice.

5. Be in the company of upbeat people.
The significance of surrounding ourselves with positive individuals is emphasized throughout the film. Our emotional health can be greatly enhanced by positive relationships.

6. Your contentment is important.
It is our duty to be happy. It needs to be our top priority, and we should make decisions that make us happy. “Dear Zindagi” demonstrates to us our deservingness of happiness.

7. Let Go of Conventional Expectations.
Society frequently has preconceived notions about our relationships, occupations, and personal decisions. The movie exhorts us to reject these assumptions and follow our passions.

8. The Journey of Self-Discovery Is Lifelong.
The journey of self-discovery that is life. The message of “Dear Zindagi” is that we are all continually changing and that it’s acceptable to not know everything at once.

9. Adopt a present-focused mindset.
We can lose sight of the present by worrying about the future or focusing on the past. The film encourages us to enjoy and live in the present moment.

10. Honor and Love Yourself.
A fulfilling existence is built on a foundation of self-love and self-respect. We learn from “Dear Zindagi” that we should love and care for ourselves just as much as we do for other people.

11. Little Pleasures Count.
Generous deeds are not always the source of happiness. It can be found in the simple things, like a heartfelt discussion, a warm cup of tea, or a stunning sunset.

12. Give Up Negative Connections.
Relationships that are toxic can sap our happiness and vitality. The movie serves as a helpful reminder that it’s acceptable to part ways with those who are not good for us.

13. Interaction Is Essential.
In any relationship, communication that is open and sincere is essential. “Dear Zindagi” emphasizes how important it is to communicate our thoughts and feelings.

14. Gratitude’s Importance.
Gratitude for the positive aspects of our lives might cause a perspective shift. We are urged to count our blessings by the film.

15. Avoid Comparing Your Experiences.
We can cause needless tension by comparing our journey to that of others. We learn from “Dear Zindagi” that every person has a different route and that it’s acceptable to move at our own spee